How to Become a High Class Male Escort
The term ‘high class’ has typically been awarded to female escorts and less to male escorts and most often the title is awarded on a self-proclaimed basis. Since the advent of the internet with more business orientated male sex workers turning away from the streets to perch themselves comfortably behind a computer desk in the luxury of their city apartments, more and more male escorts have taken on the title of a High Class male escort.
There are no set rules, largely due to the over use of the word, every man selling their time or straight up sex posing in a jump suit or a Roberto Cavalli, more often than not will deem themselves a high class male escort. It seems however, for the most part associated with the rates an escort charges, rather than the quality of service provided, dress code or other factors. In this article we’ll delve in to a step-by-step essentials list of a credible high class male escort in the guide below.
A gay male escort’s typical short assignment may be a hire for dates, simple male sex play, or a role play performance. Longer assignments will usually include some form of these sex activities along with roles as personal assistants or personal companions. If you enter this market, you can expect international business and clientele.
Most male escorts prefer only gay assignments where the market is growing increasingly larger for the ‘male for male’ escorts, however, some will accept dates with women as and when these jobs come in. For bisexual, transsexual and transgender escorts there can be an elite role of the high class escort attained for their market serving men and sometimes woman throughout the world.
There is a great deal of money to be made in this privileged segment of the London gay male escort market, with cities like New York, Los Angeles, Dubai and to a lesser extent Paris and Berlin offering opportunities for men to ascend to the high class sector of the sex trade. If you want to earn the money this market level offers follow the guide detailed in this article, an example of rates you will be able to charge can be as high as:
- Unit of Time: Notes: Rates
- 1 Hour Session Minimum Booking $300
- Overnights Typically 8 – 12 Hour $1,500
- 1 Day 24 hours $3,000
- Weekend Up to 3 Days $5,000
Rates are usually charged for your time, expenses and travel costs can be added separately.
While female escorts may be able to demand a higher fee, it is important to note in the last decade and a half or so, rates have significantly decreased for both male and female escorts in part due to the rise of the internet and the ease of access that brings, as well as the escort business in general becoming more mainstream and less taboo and while this is a good thing for the ethos of escorts, it has led to an increase in the number and supply of escorts to a market.
An even more profound impact has been felt in cities like London where immigration from the European Union and other parts of the world has brought in escorts in their thousands who are happy and prepared to work at a much lower rate, this has had a knock on effect for prices for every escort service provider, male escorts in particular perhaps the reason lies behind men being more willing to start a new life in another country. In the United States this trend is the same with natives of South America moving in and settling in to the lucrative sex trade with the at home ‘High Class’ service being the most attractive opportunity.
While men generally require sex or sexual activity for these rates, it is not always the case, many man and women hire escorts so they can enjoy the company of an attractive man without feeling like they need to impress or maintain the relationship, male clients may simply want to be accompanied to their public engagements and have company for entertainment occasions, many men also enjoy the companionship that professional male escorts offer without the attachment that goes along with a committed relationship.
Gay male escorts can be paid very well, and are under no obligation to have sex with their clients, a time for payment service is the norm while being clear of the services provided is appropriate and expected.
Follow these steps to become a high class gay male escort:
- Develop the body type that will sell. Currently, the two most popular types are those which are fairly muscular, or the ‘twink’ model body. You will need to select a body type that you can maintain, that comes most natural to you. If you choose the twink body style, you will likely need to diet regularly to keep off excess fat, and to exercise to get the slim and slender body that is part of the style, yoga and aerobic exercises are more conducive to maintain the twink body type. Taking care of your skin to keep a youthful appearance and usually a smooth or hairless body and face with less hair than may be natural for most men, as well as daily moisturizing and keeping your daily water intake up will also be important.
Your attire will be different with this twink body type from the muscular, the suited and booted, the hairy bear and the fetish scene male escorts. A younger style of clothing with more sportswear, boyish and feminine clothing is more appropriate for the market that your look will need to serve and cater towards.
If you select the muscular body type, you will need to visit the gym regularly and avoid dietary excesses that will bring up your body mass index (fat to muscle ratio). Whichever body type you select it is always important to make sure you look your best to make the most of your career as a male escort.
- Maintain your appearance so that you are physically attractive. Make sure you have nice physical features and accentuate the positive to bring attention away from any imperfections. Pay attention to grooming and cleanliness. There should be no offensive body odor, and you should douche regularly prior to any engagement, recent research has shown and sexual health clinics will tell you that contrary to popular opinion among gay men, douching should Not be performed just before anal intercourse, douching is important for cleaning but as well as cleansing that part of the body it also clears away some bacteria’s which are naturally occurring to help protect you from infection, speak to your local sexual health adviser at a clinic who can provide detailed advice on how long before a sexual encounter will give the best result for cleanliness as well as your safety. Clients who pay a premium price for a male escort are usually high-class people with high expectations, the clients who are ‘normal’ working folks saving up their income to meet their chosen male escort will also expect their hard earned money to pay for a service and provider of quality, cleanliness and the optimal appearance for your body type are essential.
- Ensure that you know how to carry on a lively conversation. You should be able to discuss any gay sex fetish or role playing game in which a client may wish you to engage. As a high-class escort you must always control your temperament, and act like a gentleman, discussing politics for example is something that will come up with many of the types of clients you will meet on the high end market, always temper these conversations lightly with a less aggressive opinion than you may actually have in order to avoid disengagement and disagreement. You should hold a wide level of knowledge on a variety of subjects in order to be able to converse with men from all backgrounds, countries, races, cultures, age groups, professions and financial positions.
The expectations placed on you will vary with the image you have created of yourself, highly sophisticated clientele for example may choose an older companion of 30-40 years old to ensure that their intellectual needs will be stimulated during the encounter.
There is room for deviation in all aspects when it comes to conversational skill and areas or even the desire to converse at all, with all potential clientele having different desires for different occasions, as well as the conundrum of contradictory attractions for example to younger 18 – 21 year old year old escorts in appearance and older intellectual in terms of personality.
- Have professional photographs taken. Depending on your style and image you may want to include a picture in a tuxedo, a shot completely nude, and a shot with no clothes from the waist up as a minimum. Many websites that advertise your services will allow as many as a dozen shots, here on GayEscorts.net the space for 20 pictures has been allocated to escort profiles, we also give fields for premium escorts to provide links to their social media profiles for clientele to be able to see more realistic photographs. Make a fair amount of your pictures professional shots. However with the rise of social media there has been a change in what people expect to see, ‘selfie’s’ are more normal for a younger generation, even though your clients will most often be older it is very clear that client’s want to see normal ‘snapshot’ pictures, there should always be these ‘normal’ photographs used to some extent to show your real appearance, both for your clients to make a better informed decision and for your own need of living up to what your profile portrays, it would be to your detriment to meet with a client who has only seen photoshopped pictures if that client is not satisfied that you look the same way in person.
- While it is very advantageous and professional to create your own individual website, you will need to be listed on escort advertisement websites where you will generate most of your business. Sites like this one, will give you the traffic you need to your mobile phone and to your website, in most cases your own website will only be clicked through and gain attention by being listed on escort directories where the market place the clientele are searching for their perfect companion. Remember to operate this like it is a special business, as most high-class escorts will only be able to maintain high rates until their appearance reaches thirty-five to forty years of age which is a young for retirement when other professions are considered.
- Your image, your brand. As discussed above when choosing your body type or working with the body type that comes most natural for you. Your name and your age is also important for the market you aim to cater towards, choosing a name and an age are important for your personal safety and protection as well as helping in the psychological detachment from your working life, these two lies are acceptable and essential in order to protect you for the rest of your life long after you have hung up your overnight bag and moved on to pursue other career opportunities and business interests. It is possible and probable you will encounter a significant number of men who become overly infatuated and even obsessed with you, though not a common weekly basis these instances will occur and when they do you will want the safe guard that an alternative identity can provide, in terms of physical safety this really only serves you in the future and having the foresight to safeguard your real name and age will help protect you from infatuated guys being able to track you down years in to the future when you have moved in from the escort business, your age and name should also be a part of your brand and in line with your appearance.
- Always remember, you are a service provider and you are also a product! You have to package that product in a way that suits your look and your appeal. You are not selling your identity or your real life. You are simply selling a product with it’s appearance and your personality for a specific amount of time to each customer. Honesty and integrity come in to how you treat your clients, the quality of service you provide and the relationship you build with each client. It is not essential to be an actor although some may disagree, it is often easier to be yourself for the most part in terms of your personality and attitude, if you are able to protect your identity then this allows you to flow more easily and comfortably with every meeting and customer being for the most part, yourself, knowing that you have a safeguard in place without needing to act or hide aspects of your personality.
- It is extremely important to separate your working life from the day to day, the personal, and the rest of your life, this comes easier to some than others, detachment although a negative sounding word that gets a lot of bad press, is an essential character trait for every escort male or female and gay or straight. The ability to engage with others and form longer term and short term relationships while simultaneously being independent of those relationships and disengaged from the interactions as they come to an end in a comfortable and effortless way creates a contradiction for many people, however, for escorts this should be a seamless art and a natural state of being which is the normal trait and approach to life that the escort embodies.
If you find becoming attached to people during sexual and/or encounters is the normal experience for you, you need to consider if escorting is the right profession for you, however, some escorts find that while attachment is normal in their personal lives during sex and social engagements, when it comes to their work it is easy to take part in these activities daily without developing the same level of attachment. This skill or character trait to develop lasting and intimate relationships with clients while accepting that they can come to an end at any point without warning is essential to maintaining your well being and a healthy state of mind while working in this profession.
Gay male escorts who are highly adaptable and independent minded, especially independent of the opinions of others, who treat their customers well, and learn as they would an art form to provide what the client wants, will be able to earn more and stay active longer and reach the High Class male escort position.